Down That Forever Road

A few more memories of my pregnancy with the girls. So glad to have these happy memories. Telling My Parents: We waited until our first ultrasound to tell my parents we were pregnant. So we told them on birthday. We went to dinner that night and I planned to tell them there. But for some reason I was SO nervous/excited/anxious to tell them that I never told them at dinner. I waited until we got back to their house. We had just finished eating cake when I finally told them. My mom screamed with excitement and again when we told them it was twins. My dad's response? "I thought so". Such a man statement, lol. But, they were both so excited and wanting to tell everyone they knew. I made them wait until about 15 weeks. Telling "The World": We went to facebook with our announcement on Marty's birthday. I had wanted to wait until our anatomy scan, but he couldn't hold it any longer, so I agreed. I am so glad we did now because the same people who were so ...

Today is the day I was due with Gentry & Savannah. Even though I know they can't be, I wish things could be different. However, I am still so thankful for the time I had with them in me. I never knew if I would know what it was like to be pregnant, and if it never happens again, at least I can say I know. It is the most wonderful feeling in the world to feel your growing baby moving inside of you. I am also so thankful hat I was able to see my beautiful girls so that I don't have to wonder who they would look like. I do wonder who they would have been. I imagine Gentry would have been her daddy's sports buddy, Savannah would have been our ballerina, and they both would be silly and full of laughter like their mommy & daddy. I pray that if we are ever luck enough to have another daughter she will be a mix of both - looks and my imagined personalities. I love you always baby girls. I am still not comfortable sharing photos of the girls online, but here is a photo o...

We took our furbaby, Bailey, to the cemetery this weekend to visit the girls. He was more interested in the lake and geese, but I was able to get him to sit for a few pictures. My three babies.

The first time I heard The Band Perry's song "If I Die Young" after I had the girls there was one part that hit me hard: "Lord make me a rainbow I’ll shine down on my mother She'll know I’m safe with you When she stands under my colors Oh and life ain't always what you think it ought to be No ain't even gray But she buries her baby The sharp knife of a short life" Whenever I see a rainbow, which is not often, it makes me think of this song and Savannah & Gentry. It has rained here just about every day for the last week, and I have been looking for a rainbow ever since. People have been posting photos to facebook of the rainbows they have seen. Each time I see a new photo I race outside hoping to catch a glimpse of the rainbow. Even Marty saw one on his way home today. I have yet to see one. Not only am I out looking for a real rainbow, I am still holding out hope for my rainbow baby. For those not familiar, a rainbow baby is a baby bo...

I am going to use this space to write memories from my pregnancy with Gentry & Savannah so that I don't forget them. These are just a few that came to me today: The Day I Found Out I Was pregnant: IVF kind of takes out the ability to surprise your spouse or come up with a clever way to tell them you're pregnant. Since we both had to work that day, it was decided it would be best if I just sent him a text to let him know either way. I was at lunch at Lenny's with 6 co-workers having an informal meeting when the doctor called. My co-worker all knew I was waiting on the important call, so it was easy to slip away. I sent Marty this text "Hi daddy . . . I'm pregnant!". He called me about 5 minutes later (seemed like an eternity) and was crying with joy. I hadn't even cried, but I started to when I heard him. We both couldn't believe it . .  our dream was coming true. That night when he got home from work, I was laying on the couch. He bent down to ...

Can I just say that I am the WORST decision maker of all time? Even after I make a decision I will second guess myself until whatever the decision was about has passed. This even occurs with lunch. =) But, right now Marty and I are trying to make a much bigger decision that what to eat for lunch. We are trying to decide whether to do another FET in the fall or if we want to wait a little longer, or even if we should use a gestational carrier. My doctor called the Monday after we found out our first FET failed. He seemed so perplexed as to why it didn't work. By all scientific standards everything was great - all of the medications had done their jobs to get my body ready and our embryo was grade A. He said he was just a frustrated as I was, so he is offering us a discount when we decide to try again. Our consolation prize, I guess. Part of me wants to do it again as soon as we can. How nice would it be to go through the holidays pregnant, just as I did last year. I think it would...